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American Like Me has been one of the easiest reads I have enjoyed. Not because it is short or lacks depth, but because each story follows another interesting one. Rather than telling their life story, I get to learn about snippets of their lives that led to the development of their identity. It felt at first that I was going to read a similar story about 100 times and start slowing down. However, what stood out to me the most through each story was the voice coming from the words. I could tell that there was emotion and each story came from a special place. Writers used comedy, personification, a brief snapshot, or a description of their years in high school. Eventually, I read from some people's beginnings, endings, and everything in between. It helped to be able to relate to the stories and see how a piece of someone's life reflected on mine.

I never thought about my life growing up as in depth as each writer did. Closing the book, I had more of an urge to better understand my upbringing and my parents. My mom was a first-generation immigrant from Japan. Her mom worked two jobs while her dad was in the Navy. Growing up, it was mostly just her and her two brothers.  She was the middle of the three but from what she told me, acted as the oldest and took care of them. She went to UCSD and was the second to graduate after the oldest. Luckily for me, her growth allowed my life to be significantly easier. I instead grew in a middle-class suburb and had the freedom to enjoy living in San Diego. My mom was able to pick me up from school and I didn't have the same worries she had growing up. I can appreciate more what she did for me and what her mom did for her. I will never truly experience the trouble that they both had settling in America, yet I feel that I can better understand what they went through. 

I recommend this book to anyone that hasn't read it. It's not important whether you or someone in your family moved to America, but that you can keep an open mind about the vast differences of "American" culture.  It's easy to assume that American culture is just NFL, hotdogs, and McDonalds, but it is a variety of cultures that can coexist and integrate with each other. I felt that I was able to connect with almost every story even though I did not have the same cultures, religions, or parents. I think that it what made each one amazing. Even if you do not finish the book, even just a few stories can be insightful. 

 


Comments

  1. Hi Alex, I also read this book. I enjoyed reading every unique story and learning about the different cultures. I like how you were able to reflect on your own upbringing and this is something I definitely have to do.

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  2. Hi Alex! I think it's awesome that the book has so many different stories and perspectives. I'm really glad to hear that each story had its own voice and emotion rather than being the same story over and over. I'll definitely have to give it a shot since everyone has such good things to say about it!

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  3. Hello Alex. Very interesting post, your comments on American identity remind me about a discussion we had in a sociology class on the difference between "melting-pot" culture and "culture mosaic". Many years ago sociologists use the former to describe American culture and the latter for Canadian culture. The difference is that immigrants in America are expected to blend in the "melting-pot" by learning the English language and adopting the conventional practices such as watching football and celebrating Thanksgiving, while immigrants in Canada form their own enclaves. I think each type of society has its benefits and disadvantages. I kind of appreciate we have more of a holistic and common identity in America, but I also hope our society to embrace cultural diversity more.

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  4. Hey Alex, I read the first sentence of your post and I totally agreed! I think I mentioned something similar in my first post, but I really liked the format of the book too. In some other books it is easy to get a little bored with the monotony of certain sections, but with this one, all the stories each presented their own unique anecdotes and stories, so I really liked that too. Good insight.

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  5. I love how you were able to relate to the book, and you included stories of your own experiences and your mother's experiences. This book seems cool, and I can't wait to take a look at it. The individual anecdotes seem to keep it interesting!

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